Many people spend their lives trying to be something they are not. As such, they spend a lot of money and time on things they do not need at the expense of the things they desperately need. Instead of improving on what they already have to make it even better, they focus on trying to be something different. You have seen people with black melanin skin, bleaching, and trying to look different. Rule number one: do not try to be someone else. After all, growth rarely comes from perfectionism. It comes from imperfections. Americans did not go to the moon…